Sadly my mother’s older brother, Uncle Rich, passed away last week after a brief illness. His death was caught everyone by surprise. Unlike my mother, Dick was still living semi-independently and was relatively high functioning despite the onset of dementia in more recent years.
I got wind of his sudden illness while in Queenstown a week ago. He died the day after I returned to Sydney. After some reflection, I decided to cross the Tasman again and attend his funeral. I wanted to honour the effort everyone made attending Mum’s funeral a year ago, while extending support to Auntie Pam, Mum’s older sister, who’s lost two siblings in a single year.
My decision was made easier thanks to a super cheap airfare. I was able to cash in some frequent flyer points and fly to Christchurch for less than $270. I also scored a great hotel deal via Amex, plus a discounted rental car for the weekend. Lo and behold I found myself back in the Qantas First Class lounge at the crack of dawn on Saturday morning.
I delighted to arrive in time to catch the sun’s final rays illuminating Lyttelton as it was engulfed by the afternoon shadows. Chatteris Bay looked stunning. Although a chilling wind left me shivering and I all but lost sensation in my hands. I then drive to Pam’s for private catch up before finally checking into my hotel.
I’m so glad stopped at the spit. It’s an incredible geographical formation. Much to my surprise I discovered the broad beach and expansive dunes consist entirely of smooth oval gravel pebbles. Incredibly they’ve all come from the Southern Alps, swept down to the coast by the braided Rakaia River, about 40km down the coast. Their smooth and rounded appearance reflects their origin as rubble ground smooth by glaciers grinding their way through the alps.
We finished our morning with a scenic drive along the coast to Sumner, then returned to my hotel to prepare for Dick’s funeral. The remainder of the afternoon was taken up by the service, and a reception later, before we all retired to cousin Nicki’s home for a light supper. The service bought back fond memories of my childhood and a few sad moments reflecting again on my mother’s death last year.
I took Matt and my cousin, Roanne, to the airport about 6:15pm and returned to my hotel for an early night. My flight on Tuesday morning departed at the ungodly hour of 6:00am. As a result, my alarm woke me shortly after 3:00am. I was back at home in Sydney by 9:00am.
It was lovely catching up with family again. I also enjoyed getting outdoors and soaking up some stunning scenery. It was the perfect anecdote for a stressful start to the year. Sadly, our business is struggling in the current economic climate. As a result, most days can feel like a bit of a slog. A little escapism was just what the doctor ordered.
It was lovely catching up with family again. I also enjoyed getting outdoors and soaking up some stunning scenery. It was the perfect anecdote for a stressful start to the year. Sadly, our business is struggling in the current economic climate. As a result, most days can feel like a bit of a slog. A little escapism was just what the doctor ordered.
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